Pass Her Test: The Key to How to Get Women in Bed

The initial interaction between a man and a woman is all about the guy trying to find out how to get women in bed. The woman, on the other hand, is trying to find out if the guy passes all of her tests on his way to being allowed to go to bed with her. Guys need to know how to pass these tests if they ever hope to reach their ultimate goals. Below are some guidelines on how to pass women’s test that will surely get you to bed with her.

To begin with, if a girl is testing you, it is a positive sign. This means she is, at a minimum, interested and attracted to you. It also means that you are succeeding with your approach toward picking her up. Now, she needs to find out whether you really are a cool guy or if you are simply faking it to get into her pants. She is going to ask you some basic questions that aren’t about anything really important. They are going to ask things like “do you pick up a lot of women?” or “do you kiss and tell?” Nothing earth-shattering, but you still have to pass them in any event.

The first key to passing the test is to always agree. Even if she is asking you a completely preposterous question like “are you gay?” you need to sarcastically agree with her. Make your response as exaggerated as possible so she knows that you are being sarcastic and that she understands that your real answer is no. She will also find this kind of response to be humorous, which is a bonus since humor builds attraction.

After you answer her question, the next part of passing her test is to change the subject right away. This allows the conversation to progress without any awkward moments in between passing the test and moving to the next stage of the interaction. If you allow any space to grow, she will continue to test you, which you do not really want. You can also choose to ignore the test, since answering the question might not be useful for your end goal.

All girls will test you to make sure you are who they want. So, if you want to learn how to get women in bed, you have to learn how to pass their tests. Once you pass, your path toward your goal will be a lot smoother.…

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Develop the Diva 2 – 12 Things to Know About Women

The word Diva inspires different reactions. Some women say they want to be a Diva, or they do not want to be a Diva, or they think they already are a Diva.

Webster's defines Diva as a "goddess, a fine lady." The term often describes a person who, although irritating, can not be done without.

Women leaders need to communicate with the clarity, conviction, and confidence to move their agendas forward in negotiations and other forms of communication.

So I refer to it as Developing the Diva Within. First identify and then use the skills that women possess. Often women do not recognize these as skills and do not lease them to empower their communication success.

The key to successful communication is to understand that the audience drives the communication, not the speaker. The speaker needs to talk in a way that the audience will "get it". It is not incumbent on the audience to understand the message. In the business world, women are often talking to male audiences. Here they need to speak in a way a male audience will "get it".

ORIGINAL 7 STEPS TO "Get OUT OF THE Way" of your Inner Diva:

1. End Sentences with Voice Low and Strong

2. Do not Talk Through Defining Moments

3. Be Empowered in Word and Action

4. Have the Confidence to Ask Questions

5. Engagement to Pass the W Test

Why you, Why now, What manner

6. Use Scalpel of Clarity-Mercilessly

7. Begin at the END. Be Your Own GPS

Tips to Develop the Diva 2

1. Use rhetorical devices to connect with the audience. Easy to use examples are: If you could see what I see, the simple truth is, you deserve to know.

2. Be a Sharkette – no one gives up power willingly. Do not ask for power, you take it.

An illustration of verbal uncertainty is the use of tag questions. Instead of making a statement that can stand alone, female employees may add a short question at the end:

"The meeting starts at nine, does not it?"

"I think the project is coming along do not you?"

In sharp contrast to the communication style of men, which seeks to establish and maintain status and domination, women's communication is more egalitarian, or rule-by-consensus. You could say the female mode prevents women from displaying excellence.

3. "If you do not like change, you will like irrelevancy even less", General Eric Shinseki

Being irrelevant is far worse than being ineffective.

4. Visual – how women and men communicate differently

The visual aspect of communication involves varying levels of body expression, with women usually functioning at high intensity. Faces are animated and hands are in motion, often touching others. These characteristics may make women look hyper and emotional.

Men are more conservative in domestic movement and body contact. Women as the speaker may want to reduce the intensity of their visuals.

Men tend to be unreserved in sitting styles: sprawling, stretching and spreading out. The intensity level …

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