Month: July 2020

To avoid being seen as too weird or different, and to fit in better with others, gifted children often learn to cover up their unusual abilities. As adults, many still follow a pattern of hiding.

When she began directing in the forties, Ida Lupino sometimes claimed not to know the best way to line up a shot or specify a line reading, explaining “Men hate bossy women. Sometimes I pretend to know less than I do.”

She was working in a more restrictive and even misogynistic era, but research indicates even contemporary girls and women often suppress their advanced abilities, and still pretend to know less, be less capable.

Sally M. Reis, Ph.D. of the National Research Center on the Gifted and Talented has found that many girls and women not only try to minimize their differences, but some “begin to doubt that they really have abilities.”

That is one of the most potentially destructive aspects of hiding: losing belief in your own capabilities.

But covering up, not acknowledging, or discounting our talents and abilities is not just something done by girls and women.

As one example, a recent article in a Malaysian newspaper reported that a teen boy was excited about astrophysics but “afraid of being ridiculed, teased, resented or ostracised, he goes to great lengths to hide his giftedness.”

Marcus Buckingham and Donald O. Clifton declare in their book Now, Discover Your Strengths that most of us have little sense of our talents and strengths.

They explain, “Instead, guided by our parents, by our teachers, by our managers, and by psychology’s fascination with pathology, we become experts in our weaknesses and spend our lives trying to repair these flaws, while our strengths lie dormant and neglected.”

Discounting or disparaging abilities

Many people may even discount their exceptional perceptions, empathy, high sensitivity, rapid sensory processing, intensity of feelings, concern for social issues and other aspects of high ability, or disparage them as “flaws” – especially in the face of negative social reactions and ignorance on the part of others.

Even trained mental health professionals may not understand the personality and psychological aspects of giftedness.

Of course, in some fields, such as entertainment, being different and exceptional is much more supported. People who can entertain are celebrated and rewarded, and many of them have exceptional creative talents.

Gifted adults and hiding giftedness

Mary-Elaine Jacobsen (author of the book The Gifted Adult) points out that exceptional intellectual and creative abilities “can lead to highly successful careers, sometimes in multiple fields.

She notes that eminent gifted and talented people can be inspiring role models, but at the same time, “glorified images of illustriousness can imply that early in life those who are truly gifted know exactly what they are to do with their lives and pursue their rightful lifework unimpeded – all the way to the full realization of their potential and the rewards of eminence.”

She cautions that the many barriers to achievement, including hiding abilities, can “easily engender deep disappointment …

To make your woman experience pleasure during lovemaking, you need to first know how to turn her on both emotionally and physically. Women are very different from men, as they are usually not turned on by physically stimulation only. Emotion and passion need to be involved to get their sexual juices flowing.

Now, let us discuss 4 simple foreplay techniques to turn her on for great lovemaking:

1. Turn her on emotionally and mentally. As you have already known, to get a woman turned on, you need to seduce her emotionally and mentally. Keep her imagining those steamy scenes in her mind. One way is to read a romance novel together, and describe the steamy scene to her in very descriptive words. During this moment, do not touch her sexually so as to increase her sexual anticipation and desire.

2. Use sweet words. As she is immersing in the steamy scene that you have read to her, now take the time to use sweet words on her. Tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. Women like to hear sweet words about them and how you express your love to them.

3. Foreplay slowly. Once you have turned her on mentally and emotionally, now it is time to turn her on physically. Take your time to engage in some sexual physically contact with her so as to bring it to the next level. You can start with slow kissing and move on to target her erogenous zones such as neck, spine, inner thighs, breasts, abdomen and earlobes.

4. Delay the act of intercourse. Once you see that she is extremely turned on from your foreplay, you can delay the act of intercourse for a while so as to make her want it more badly. At this moment, you can provide her with cunnilingus. Cunnilingus can make her achieve an orgasm before intercourse, which will make the whole lovemaking experience more mind-blowing for her.

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Learning how to grow boobs can be tricky with all the mixed information online these days so I have listed some methods that were given to me from different women throughout the industry and women I know that have tried various things.

Keep in mind that some of these methods were not altered by me, I simply took them the way to have been created and this article to help women find a quick list for methods being used by women to help grow boobs.

· Massage your boobs regularly. Massaging is actually the best way for you to help achieve the bigger breast size you desire. Be sure to use proven breast enhancement creams to help increase the size of your boobs. However, there are some creams that have strong chemical content so you must be vigilant in choosing which breast enhancement cream is appropriate for your body. You can also massage your boobs without using creams by following the "clockwise inward" motion.

· A light to moderate massaging of the boobs is strongly recommended. Massaging the breathing areas of your boobs lightly is deemed very essential in stimulating the levels in making the breasts grow naturally. The light massaging procedure is primarily used along with the application of herbal pills and creams in the US, Canada and Asia since early civilization.

· Choose the natural breast enhancement formula carefully. This rule is considered a way for you to experiment on which formula is safe for your body. You must take note that most breast enhancement formulas are available in the market today may work on one person but not on the other. The naturally-made dietary supplements is said to work efficiently in enhancing the breast size.

· Avoid too much caffeine in intake as much as possible. Do away with drinks with high caffeine content such as coffee and chocolate drink. Also try to avoid drinking caffeinated beverages such as soda. Scientific studies show that caffeine and its other stimulants counteract the natural enhancement levels in the breasts. Caffeine also causes the body to quickly generate the nutrients' metabolism, which is said to cause problems in the innate flow of breast augmentation.

· Keep yourself hydrated always. Hydrate yourself by drinking an average of 8 – 10 glasses of water daily and eating lots of fruits and vegetables. Some women are believed to have smaller breasts due to lack of water and food intake. Keeping yourself hydrated will also help you live a better healthy lifestyle in the future.

· If a certain breast enhancement supplement you are currently using does not suit your body's daily needs, it's better stop using them before it's too late. If all else fails, the so-called "early adjustment" period in which you can refund the supplement you purchased from the seller or manufacturer.

· Make sure that the supplement you're going to use in making your boobs grow is prescribed by a doctor first. This rule is very important since this will …