Just How Grateful Can You Be?

This is the season for Gratitude.

It’s easy to be thankful, to feel gratitude, for things we receive that we recognize immediately as gifts.

Can you also be grateful for whatever comes into your life that appears in the form of a challenge?

A present that someone sends you, wrapped or unwrapped, that you get to open and go “Oooh” and “Aaah” easily evokes gratitude, especially when it’s unexpected and something you’ll enjoy.

It’s easy to be grateful for having a warm home, for having plenty of food, and loving companions, whether human or animal — if only you remember to appreciate the “little” things that are not so little at all.

The not-so-easy part is gifts come in unexpected forms with unexpected qualities that challenge you.

Such a gift may seem harsh or uncomfortable at first.

Such a gift may push your buttons, evoke fear or anxiety, anger, or even jealousy.

“What?” you ask in astonishment.

“Was that truly a gift when so-and-so was rude to me?

Was it a gift when I discovered that my car wouldn’t start or the person who was supposed to meet me for dinner didn’t show up and didn’t call?

How can it be a gift when someone bullies me or gossips about me?”

We may not recognize it as a gift, at first, when we are treated badly or when something happens that pushes our buttons,.

We may be so caught up in our emotional response that all we can do in that moment is feel our denser emotions surging.

Only in retrospect may we recognize that the experience is an opportunity for gratitude.

Every experience is an opportunity for gratitude.

Stop and consider. Somewhere inside each situation a gift awaits you. And not only one gift, but perhaps even two or three… or more.

These are what I call Seeds of Equivalent Benefit.

These “seeds” are gifts that may need time to grow. They may be hidden, at first, so tiny that your eyes cannot see them, but their presence is certain.

  • Perhaps the gift is to discover who your real friends are.
  • Perhaps the gift encourages you to find your inner courage and to step forward into that courage in a new and more powerful way.
  • Perhaps the gift is an opportunity for you to put aside something that you are strongly attached to in order to discover the freedom of non-attachment.
  • Perhaps the gift is to learn to trust that the Universe (God, Goddess, All That Is) is right there taking care of you, if only you open yourself to receive these blessings.

These are only a few of the true gifts of life’s challenges.

When we open our hearts through gratitude to receive them, we begin to find joy and peace within ourselves, as well as our inner strengths.

To discover hidden gifts, stop the chatter in your head about how terrible the situation is or was, and open yourself and your heart to gratitude.

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How to Keep a Woman in Love With You? Do This & You Will Never See Her Fall Out of Love With You

Finally you have a girlfriend and things seem to be all hunky-dory at least for now. Well, if you do not work on your relationship continuously things could take a turn for the worse. A woman will not always remain in love with you. There are lots of things that we do in life that kills the romance and with it the relationship.

Here are seven tips that will keep the fires burning all the time.

Flowers
Flowers never went out of fashion and never will. What better way to say to a girl that you love her than by sending her a bunch of tulips. You can send her flowers any day and you don’t need an excuse. If your girl is writing an exam then send her flowers that morning, if she is visiting her friends out of town send her flowers there to tell her that she is on your mind. Sending her flowers tells her that she is being missed.

Look for an excuse to celebrate
Celebrate every small and big event in her life. If she has graduated then obviously it calls for a special celebration however, small events like she getting a new pet or a new car should be celebrated with gusto.

Praise
Never tire of telling her that she looks stunning and gorgeous. No woman will tire of compliments from her man no matter how old the relationship is. However, say it in a style that genuinely reflects your feelings.

Never forget special occasions
Your first date, first kiss, your first meeting, Valentines Day, woman’s day, birthdays, anniversaries etc all should be remembered and celebrated. These special occasions give you the chance to reinforce your commitment to her.

Lovemaking
You have to ensure that your lovemaking never loses the spark. Make love to her as if it is the first time. Try and fulfill her fantasies and make sure that there is never a dull moment in your love life. Make passionate love at times and when she is not up to it be gentle and sweet. However, keep her sexually satisfied.

Support
Support her in all her endeavors and encourage her in all that she does whether it is academics or profession. Be the rock in her life and stand by her decisions good or bad.

Life outside the relationship
Just as you need your space so does she. Encourage her to spend time with other girls to do girly things. Give her all the freedom and never doubt her intentions or integrity. This you way tell her that you have full faith in her and trust her judgments.…

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Nike Shoes – Creating Thuds in the World of Fashion

Year 1987 saw the launch of a new line of Nike Shoe. This new line of shoes that shook the world with its innovatively advance air sole technology was Nike Air Max. Since its introduction lot many changes have been done to the original model.

The campaign started with the punch line: A little less hurt. The campaign made a strong appeal in the minds of the people with using athletes in the promotional campaigns.

Most of the shoe models use a cushioned heel at the bottom that is observable from the side.

Major types of cushions used were as follows –

Air Max2

Tube Air

Zoomed Air

Tuned Air

Year 1985 saw the launch of Dunk as the shoe for the basketball players. They named it Nike Dunk SB. They initially targeted only the basketball players. Even the technology embedded was so as to support the sporty features of the shoe. In the year 1998, the dunk range of shoes was re launched as a fashion icon amongst the youth. In comparison to the Nike’s original shoes, the Dunk range of Nike was basically launched as a lower profile shoe. But the sole was lighter than the parent shoe. To popularize the Dunk range, Nike even launched a program called “College Colors” Programs.

The Dunk range was further expanded to Nike Dunks High, Nike Dunks Low and Nike Dunks Mid. The Nike Dunk Highs are a mouthful to say and certainly eyeful to look at. In comparison to Dunk High Shoe line the Nike Dunks Low and The Nike Dunks Mid range shoe have a street style but certainly with high performance quality. As a real treat to women, Nike introduced an exclusive collection of shoes which looked absolutely sporty, trendy and inspiring. If you are a fashion lover and desire to be with ultra look, then Nike shoes can stand up to your expectations. The designs look inspiring, yet they come with feasible rates where everyone can sizzle with dashing look.

Air Jordans –

Air Jordan is also called “The Best Shoe Ever” or “MJs”. This line of shoes were designed especially or Michael Jordan and was named after him. Michael Jordan being a professional Player for Basketball, his name was certainly the best brand endorsement. Even after Michael Jordan have retired from the game but still this shoe in his name is very much popular. Now Michael Jordan is sold under the Jordan brand. So, it is jokingly said that Jordan Brand has renowned a basketball player. The signature shoe model, a variant, of the same has also been launched recently.

Women’s Air Jordans: On the first time launch of Air Jordan’s Women collection, Nike promised to deliver the same quality and commitment to this range that it had shown previously in men shoe line. The Women air Jordan shoes were surely no exception to that. As much as the male fans the female fans were enthusiastic about owing Jordan Air shoes. The Women’s Air Jordans comes …

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Different Uses For Cellophane Wrap

It’s clear, it’s handy, and it’s wrapped around my candy. The cellophane wrap is one of the most versatile discoveries of the 1900s. Intended to be a protective textile, the cellophane has since found application in many industries as a packaging material and as a semi-permeable film.

Many people mistake cellophane for plastic. The truth is the two materials are of completely different composition. Plastic is a synthetic or semi-synthetic polymer. In contrast, cellophane is a sheet of regenerated cellulose. The only thing that cellophane and plastic have in common is that both materials are usually made into transparent sheets.

History of cellophane

It was a Swiss chemist named Jacques E. Brandenberger who in the turn of the 20th century developed the first cellophane. He intended the material to be a water-resistant film to protect textile. He experimented on a substance known as viscose to coat cloth, but to his dismay the fabric turned out too stiff and unsuitable for any practical use.

Peeling off the film layer afterwards, he realized that its properties of flexibility and transparency can be used for other purposes. Brandenberger worked on perfecting his invention and in 1912, he patented cellophane. The term was derived from the words “cellulose” and “diaphane”, which means transparent.

US candy manufacturers began importing cellophane that same year to use it for candy wrapper. In 1924, the chemical company DuPont initiated the development of moisture-proof cellophane. By 1927, after a company chemist named William Hale Charch succeeded in moisture-proofing the cellophane, many industries worldwide embraced the new material and began using cellophane for their various packaging needs.

Uses for cellophane

One of the earliest applications for cellophane wrap is for packaging and storage of food products. This specific function of the cellophane remains to this day, even though some industries have turned to plastic for the same purpose. Nevertheless, the use of cellophane as a packaging material extends beyond food products. Almost all consumer products are able to utilize cellophane for packaging.

There are various other applications for cellophane. Adhesive tapes, such as 3M’s Scotch tape, use cellophane as a base for their products. There are those who use printed cellophane for gift wrapping. Cellophane is also used as a semi-permeable barrier for battery cells.

Beauty spas employ cellophane wrap for hair and cellulite treatments. In the realm of medicine, cellophane is also used as semi-permeable tubing for dialysis. With such an impressive track record, people will continue to utilize cellophane as an important material for industry.…

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Dressing Kids Nicely on a Budget

The best clothes for your children are not always the most costly ones. You can buy affordable clothes at thrift stores, yard sales and online auctions. Use these ideas to dress your kids nicely on a budget.

Bring the kids. Always try to shop with the kids along, so you can be sure whether the clothes fit them right and not waste money. Try on the clothing and see if it suits them well. Consider the following – your kid’s clothes should match their height, body type, activity level, and personal taste. Also think about the occasion and the weather the clothes would be worn in.

Buy good quality clothes.  You can tell the quality of the clothes just by looking at how the fabric is made. Is it tatty?  Does it have bumps in some areas? How perfect is the cut? Ensuring that the clothing has a long life will reduce the later cost of replacing them as they wear out.

Buy in volume.  To save money, try to buy clothing separates in bulk. Just be certain that eventually the items will get worn. Think about buying a larger size so that kids who grow quickly may still be able to wear them.

Look for bargains. Discounted clothing prices can be found at various stores when they have sales. You can buy clothes cheaply in off-season sales. Buy these a size larger than what your child currently wears so they will have grown into it when the season does come. Often, consignment stores will have stocks of items people have sold because they no longer liked them. This means they will still be in good order, sometimes with the original tag still on… so look for something your children can wear. This of course also goes for yard sales, eBay and opportunity or thrift stores.

Purchase classic things.  Trendy fashion clothing is dearer and quickly gets replaced with newer trends.  Seek classic, timeless items that your kids can wear over and over and still look stylish. Just add fashionable accessories to the ensemble to freshen up their looks.

Learn to sew kids’ clothes. There are many benefits to constructing your own clothes for your children. For one thing, you know they will fit really well. You can copy make copies of expensive designer trends using cheaper materials. In addition, you can sew clothes that the kids design through their own efforts. Finally, it can be far more inexpensive than purchasing store-made goods. The only con is that you must invest your own time, talent, and effort. In addition, consider showing your kids that they can stitch together clothing for themselves. This will take some creativity and patience! They may enjoy being useful and clever at the same time.

It’s a practical decision to supply your children with clothes inexpensively. If you spend less money on clothing, you can spend more on toys, vacations, or other things that you want. Enjoy being thrifty!…

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