Top 10 Benefits of Male Chastity

Many people find the concept of male chastity fun and exciting. This is particularly true if the male partner is somewhat submissive or the female partner is somewhat dominant. But, it’s not only for couples in those kinds of relationships. In fact, it can benefit almost any heterosexual relationship.

Male chastity is not just fun and games – there are real benefits to the male chastity lifestyle.

Because the topic is so personal, often those interested fear ridicule and embarrassment so, many of their questions go unasked. Just check out a forum or two where someone dared to ask a question about male chastity…”weirdo, whack job, pervert, sicko…” are often the unkind comments returned. It is a personal choice in life, like anything else and can be discussed sensibly like anything else. That’s why I want to take some time today to write about the top 10 benefits of male chastity – for those who are to shy to ask about being under loving lock and key.

1. It stops your man from wasting his time and libido masturbating. If you are in a relationship, all of his sexual energy should be directed at you. It should not be wasted on him touching himself and thinking about other women. As long as he can masturbate, he is psychologically cheating on you – and lying to you by default.

2. Your sex life will improve. Because he’ll have to please you in order to get his release, he’ll become a more experimental and better lover. You will have more orgasms per week than you’ve ever had before.

3. Your relationship will become stronger. Male chastity encourages open and honest communication about each other’s needs. This is an incredible benefit for any couple, and why male chastity can help any couple improve their natural bonding.

4. His orgasms will improve. As long as he can masturbate regularly, he is taking action that desensitizes his penis. Once he is on a more normal ejaculation schedule, his penis will become more sensitive and his orgasms will become stronger.

5. You will never have to worry about him cheating on you. Face it – most men, no matter how much they love their wives, can’t turn down an attractive, sexy woman. Male chastity makes it impossible for him to act on these urges, so you are helping him remain faithful.

6. The romance will come back into your relationship. As long as he knows he can have sex with you any time he wants, there’s no reason for him to romance you. That’s why the romance stopped after you got married. By limiting his sexual access to you, you’ll train him to be the romantic lover he was when you were still dating.

7. You’ll never have to perform oral sex on him again. Of course, you can if you want to; but he’ll be quite happy with any sort of release, and certainly never bother you to do it for him.

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Ultra Violet Rays – Business Women's Guide to Fashion

The Color Purple is a famous literary work, movie and Broadway play. Professional women are using this dynamic color to set the stage for a captivating and elegant entry in to the business arena. Fashion has rules and limits but modern professional women are finding ways to enhance their professional look, style and appeal to make the work place a more chic environment.

Listed below are ways that you can use this color to shine at any business or social event.

Purple Reign

The color purple is not just a jeweled toned shade that can match almost any skin tone and physical complexion. The color has great meaning that can build confidence and improve your overall appeal. Purple is a mixture of reds and blues which create a sense of mystic and royal qualities. It is often used by nobility and rich people as a symbol of wealth and extreme social status. This color also evokes spirituality and creativity as well as calmness and balance.

Purple Power

Although we do not recommend wearing a purple suit to work. There are clever and fun ways to incorporate purple into your professional wardrobe for a stylish and fashionable appeal. Women can wear purple blouses and belts with their suits and business casual attire. Pins and hair pieces in purple are also acceptable for any work environment. Women should match basic suits in navy, black or gray with purple accessories. Purple accessories can include purple toned jewelry in earrings, necklaces and bracelets. Professionals women should limit their jewelry to five simple pieces. Purple handbags and shoes are also acceptable depending on company dress code and profession or industry guidelines.

Face Value

Women can also wear purple toned make-up to brighten their faces and look stunning. Soft subtle purple eye shadows and lip balms or lip glosses can highlight the face and make any woman sparkle in the business arena. Women should always be cautious of how they apply their make-up and present themselves in formal business settings. The goal is to look professional and not as though you are going to an over the top party or a Hollywood photo shoot. …

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This Woman Is An Inspiration

A few weeks ago, I was doing a bit of research online for an article that I was going to put together. I was going to write an article about how women are being conditioned to see themselves as victims.

During this time, I came across an article titled: ‘Victimhood narrative’ taught in schools fuels anxiety in young women, academic claims’. In this article, Dr Joanna Williams had been asked to share her views on one of the ways in which children are being indoctrinated at school.

Nailed It

I thought that what Joanna said made a lot of sense, and I soon came to the conclusion that this was someone who seemed like a balanced human being. I was also surprised that a publication had given her the chance to share her views.

The reason for this is that this was a woman who wasn’t willing to go along with the dominant cultural narrative, whereby all women are seen as victims and all men are seen as perpetrators. I came away thinking that this is someone who is far too sane to be given a platform like this.

Another Shock

I was also surprised to see that she was a lecturer in higher education at the University of Kent, with this being somewhere that is not too far from where I live. I ended up going onto her website to find out more about her work.

There were a number of articles that piqued my curiosity and I saw that she had also been on TV. After watching some of these videos, I got the impression that she was down to earth, mentally balanced, and approachable.

Three Books

There were also the books that she had written. The first one she wrote, ‘Consuming Higher Education: Why Learning Can’t be Bought’ came out in 2012; the second one, ‘Academic Freedom in an Age of Conformity: Confronting the Fear of Knowledge’ came out in 2016; and the third, ‘Women vs Feminism: Why We All Need Liberating from the Gender Wars’ came out in 2017.

A Number of Factors

Taking all this to account, along with my interest in current affairs, and the articles that I had written about free speech, amongst other things, I thought it would be great to meet her. Initially, I thought that the best way for this to happen would be to see if she had any talks coming up.

I soon changed my mind, though, and thought that I could see if she had the time to meet for a coffee. I didn’t think this was likely to happen as she clearly had a lot going on, but I soon came to see that I was wrong.

An interesting Interaction

When I met Joanna, it could see that how she came across in her writing and when she was on TV was a reflection of what she was like. Thus, the reason she came across as down to earth, authentic, and mentally balanced, was because that …

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Providing Emergency Wedding Party and Unique Wedding Favors

In some cases the hassles of the wedding may be too much on the wedding couple to the point that the wedding and unique wedding favors slip their mind till the event is too near. The bride and the groom have to rush and get the favors in a very short time. Also in other situations something may go wrong during delivery of the gifts as accidents, delay, wrong address or the supplier may fail to meet the deadline set. In event of any of the above quick measures must be taken to acquire the favors as fast as possible. In such predicament it is very hard to have your guests' favors personalized with complex methods; the use of printed labels can be used for temporary personalization.

To get emergency wedding and unique wedding favors the couple needs to consult the nearest gift shops to check on their products. The stores may not have enough tokens at the time so you can either buy some different shops or buy different favors. In the latter you can use the criteria as in different gifts for men and women. It is very unlicensed for most gift shops to miss something that you can use as wedding and unique wedding favors. Here the options to consider most of the factors affecting the choice in other situations are put aside, but if the choice is wide then try as much as possible to look into them and get the best as possible.

Another source of emergency favors is any supermarket near you; most of the supermarkets have wide range of products on offer ranging from edibles, electronics, decorations and many other items you can use as gifts as beauty products and containers, shavers, picture frames, watches and many more. If any favor desired is in not up to the number needed you can combine several favors knowing exactly who to give as some for the maids, best man and maid, parents, friend and guest of honor. In any locality there is a supermarket or a mall since this will be an easy source of emergency alternatives.

You can also use the clothing stores to quench your thirst for emergency tokens. Small items as handkerchiefs, scarf's and other cheap and affordable items can be used. Due to the double cost resulting from the failed delivery these gifts can stand in before the former arrives. Simple items will economically the spending especially if the earlier ordered goods will arrive later or the refund has not been received. These items are always themed so you can choose the theme that is closest to the occasion.

Edibles can offer the best wedding and unique wedding favors; they are cheap, easy to prepare in the shortest time and can be purchased in the shortest time available. Gifts as candies and cakes can be accessed from several shops around your town or city. In worst situation; little time and lack of funds you can go for the option of preparing …

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Women's Hormone Replacement Therapy – Are You In Balance?

It has been two years since the Women's Health Initiative Estrogen plus Progestin (WHI) arm of this large trial was stopped early because it caused harm. The WHI showed the opposite of what was expected – Estrogen (Premarin) plus Progestin (Provera) caused heart disease and breast cancer as well as blood clots and strokes. WHI results show that estrogen does not improve the quality of life for women. WHI estrogen plus progestin results are "evidence-based."

We now have evidence-based proof that "HRT" is harmful to women. But people are still taking Hormone Replacement Therapy and are concerned about estrogen deficiency. Why? "Little has changed because the fundamental, negative ideas about women and about menopause have not changed. Universal menopausal hormone therapy … (is) based on a cultural belief that women are inferior and need fixing. that menopause is a natural part of women's life cycle, the low estrogen levels after menopause are healthy and not abnormal. This made me unpopular – I have been labeled as "way-out" or worse. vindication ", says Jerilynn C. Prior BA, MD, FRCPC Professor of Endocrinology, Scientific Director, Center for Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation Research, University of British Columbia. And, she is correct.

Two years after the WHI study little has changed. If you go to your doctor today and request HRT most will prescribe it for you. Despite the fact that The Women's Health Initiative, the largest controlled trial of ovarian hormone therapy ever performed, provided the strongest proof that Medicine (which has been consistently affected by the Pharmaceutical Industry) causes harm for women. The website for the WHI study said, "Women should stop their study drugs immediately." Following that order led to hot flushes in many women who were on hormone therapy because their body had adjusted to that higher level of estrogen. Women who heard the news of the study in the media also often stopped their therapy abruptly. That led to severe hot flushes in hundreds of thousands of women and in virtually all women who had previously experienced them. "Because it is well known that rapid withdrawal from estrogen causes night sweats and hot flushes, all doctors should have been ready with advice for women wanting to stop estrogen." Says Dr. Prior.

For Lack of helpful information, and because the resulting symptoms of night sweats / hot flushes were so miserable, many women, in desperation, reluctantly restrained unwanted HRT treatment. It seems logical to now say that the WHI results require re-thinking of the concepts on which menopausal "replacement" and "estrogen deficiency" were based. The primary assumption that all women needed estrogen because they were deficient still needs to be addressed. I like what Dr. Susan Love said, "If estrogen deficiency is a disease, all men have it!" Destroying the concept of estrogen deficiency will be hard and may take many years to achieve. In the mean time where does that leave you and I?

Estrogen Dominion not estrogen deficiency, according to Dr. John Lee is at the crux of …

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Choosing Formal Clothing for Any Occasion

Shopping for formal clothing can be a challenge. Picking the right outfit for an occasion is usually a person's first consideration and this step alone can prove to be difficult. After you have decided what type of outfit you want to wear, finding the right formal clothing at a local store can be a challenge, and if you shop online you will probably find too much to choose from. If you need formal clothing for a special upcoming event, you can probably find exactly what you want online, but you should ask yourself a few questions first to determine exactly what you need.

The first consideration you should take into account is what type of event you are going to. Evening events usually require different formal clothing than daytime events, and some events such as a "black tie" affair require the most formal type of clothing while others such as a cocktail party have more relaxed standards. For the most formal type of events, tuxedos are appropriate for men and gowns and longer elegant dresses are appropriate for women. Formal clothing for a cock tail party or more relaxed formal event can include a suit for men and a shorter dress or cocktail dress for women.

After you have determined what type of attire is expected at your formal event, you should then take into account your body shape and type. Retail stores will probably not have a great selection of formal clothing for plus sizes, unless you have a specialty store nearby. You will be able to find a variety of formal clothing for every shape and size online, but be sure to consult sizing charts and manufacturers suggestions for sizing before placing your order. You should also be sure to order your formal clothing with plenty of time before your event so you can exchange your outfit if you find that it does not fit as expected.

Just because you are required to dress typically does not mean that you have to give up comfort. Nothing can ruin a wonderful night like being stuck in tight itchy formal clothing. It is easy to see if a specific outfit will be comfortable if you shop locally and can try it on, but if you are shopping online you will have a harder time deciding if the formal clothing you are going to purchase will be comfortable. One way to get an idea is to look at what the clothing is made out of. Natural fibers such as cotton are usually more comfortable than synthetic ones, and formal clothing that includes materials that will stretch slightly, such as spandex, will give you more comfort than rigid materials that may be too tight.

One last consideration when shopping for formal clothing is the accessories, and for ladies, hairstyle that you are planning to wear. Men should try to match their accessories such as watches, cufflinks, and ties to the clothing they purchase, or vise versa, and women should consider their purse, …

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What Attracts Women to Older Men?

Have you ever wondered what associates women to older men? And no, we're not talking about the kind of attraction between dirty old millionaires and young beautiful gold diggers. We are not talking about confused young women either who are searching for father figures in their boyfriends. Rather, we're talking about genuine and long-lasting attraction that has the potential to deepen into love.

What attracts women to older men?

MATURITY

Many studies show that females mature before males do, and it's possible that maturity is what attracts women to older men. Given the choice, who would want date an immature guy over a mature guy? An immature guy, for instance, would not understand that there are times when you have to prioritize work over relationship. A mature guy, placed in the same situation, will not just show his understanding. He'll also be supportive and maybe even volunteer to take over kitchen or laundry duties to lessen your burdens.

CONFIDENCE

There's a slight but essential difference between confidence and maturity, but both usually comes hand in hand. Confidence may be what attracts women to older men as well because it's an irresistible quality.

A guy lacking in confidence would stammer his words out and would not be able to meet a woman's eyes straight. A confident guy, on the other hand, will not just be able to speak clearly and look at you straight the eye. He also will not hesitate to ask for your name or maybe even even ask you out right away if the attraction between you is that strong.

Secondly, a confident man will not ever be threatened by the achievements of his partner. He will rejoice with her and not hate her for "upstaging" him. Younger men can rarely display this kind of confidence because they're too hungry to prove something themselves. At this point in their lives, few will be able to swallow the fact that their partners had achieved something greater than they had ever accomplished in their lives.

DECISIVENESS

What attracts women to older men? Decisiveness, for one thing.

Decisiveness can be seen in a number of ways. A decent man knows what he wants right away. A decent man knows himself well. He understands his role in the world and it before comes easily to him to identify what he wants in his life.

Once he sees something he wants, a decent man also will not hesitate to go for it. He knows what things are and are not worth fighting for and if he considers you important in his life then he'll let you know that. No woman will find that undesirable. A decent man makes his woman feel safe and protected. He helps them feel secure about the future because he's the type of man you can trust your future to … if there's ever a need to.

HAPPY AND CONTENTED

Last but not the least, the ability to be happy and contented on their own is what attracts women …

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Choosing Anniversary Diamond Rings

Many couples follow tradition when it comes to giving anniversary gifts, and tradition follows that anniversary diamond rings should be given for the sixtieth wedding anniversary. However, there is no rule that states that an anniversary diamond ring cannot be given earlier. With such a wide selection of diamond rings available, it can be difficult to choose the perfect one.

One of the most popular styles of diamond rings is the three stone anniversary ring. With this style of ring, there are three diamonds that are individually set and represent the past, present, and future. While this is the most popular setting for the three stone anniversary ring, there are many different styles and settings in which a person can choose.

Many people like to give anniversary diamond rings that are different and unique from the traditional styles of diamond rings. One way to achieve a unique look is to use colored diamonds instead of colorless or white diamonds. One of the most popular trends with colored diamonds is brown or champagne diamonds. With brown diamonds, women can have an amazing anniversary ring, while at the same time having a ring that is trendy and will match a variety of outfits that she already has in her closet.

What makes brown diamonds so attractive among buyers is that they are more affordable than other types of colored diamonds. Some of the other colors that are available for use in an anniversary ring are pink, blue, yellow, and green. It is also possible to use a combination of colored gemstones to create a diamond ring that is one of a kind. Many people will choose to use a combination of colored gemstones and place them in the anniversary ring to represent the birth of each of their children.…

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Is Kim Kardashian’s Cellulite Really That Serious?

To Photoshop or not to Photoshop, that is the question. Kim Kardashian is not a plus size woman, but she is known for her voluptuous figure. Complex Magazine created a buzz when it inadvertently put up an unaltered photo of the reality star on its website, and then replaced it with a retouched version later. The new and improved Kim had smaller breasts, a trimmer waist, and of course, slimmer cellulite-free thighs. The entire photo had been lightened including the background and Ms. Kardashian’s complexion. Side by side comparisons of the two images popped up all over the web.

Kim immediately took to her blog to defend herself. She brushed off the entire hubbub by responding “So what; I have a little cellulite. What curvy girl doesn’t?” Okay, that works. But then, after claiming to be proud of her curves and her body, she lets everyone know that she’s worked hard to make herself acceptable once again. Kardashian goes on, “At the same time as this Complex shoot, I was gearing up for my fitness DVD and you should see my thighs now!!! Ha ha!”

This is all disturbing on a few levels. For starters, the fact is that using Photoshop to change real bodies into cookie-cutter fakes is common industry practice. It is ridiculous, but it’s also old news. So, why do women still buy into the “this is how you should look” drama of magazines? And if Kim is so proud, why ruin a perfectly good with response by claiming she doesn’t look like that anymore?

What bugs me the most about the whole thing is that people think it is okay to criticize her figure whether it’s Photoshopped or not. There is no perfect or ideal body. Yet, women continue to make the news for gaining or losing weight like it is a matter of national security or something. Oprah felt so ashamed that she put her own side by side comparison on the cover of her magazine. Tyra Banks ranted on her show about her weight gain after critics ripped into her. Jennifer Love Hewitt blogged about the negative response to her bikini laden vacation photos. And weightloss companies like Jenny Craig and Nutrisystem keep making comeback stories of people like Valerie Bertinelli and Marie Osmond.

So what’s a full figured girl to do? It may seem nearly impossible to tune out all the negative body image messages flying around. It’s time that we learn to embrace all bodies for what they are. Let’s cut out the competitiveness. Beauty doesn’t come in one shape or size. If you’re plus sized, work it. If you’re slender, work it. If you’re somewhere in between, work it. Just don’t let someone else’s standard of beauty determine how you feel about yourself.…

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The Best Gift For Mom This Mother's Day is Good Health

Mother's Day is the best time to show your mom, step mom, grand mom or that special woman who has always played the role of a "sweet mom" in your life how much you care. A good system that will help to improve and enhance her health and fitness makes a great gift as part of a valuable gift basket. Moms who love to stay fit, slim and get rid of ugly stomach fat will appreciate a Mother's Day gift that shows you want her to live long, slow down the aging process and remain healthy every time. What better way to do that than giving her the best weight loss system?

Give your mother something that is unique and special from every other gift idea out there, something that will last longer and keep on giving than chocolates, jewelry or flowers. One thing you can do for your mom for Mother's Day is to put her health first above all other thing. A healthy mom is a happy and productive one. Spending on her health should not be too burdensome for you. At least, she was there for you when you were growing up. Remember?

Consider giving your mother a gift of good health, longevity and youthfulness to show just how much you love and wish her well. Surprise mom with the best weight loss system and eliminate ugly belly fat that has been linked to premature death in women. You can easily download any of the proven and effective system for her to try immediately. You will be surprise how much she will appreciate this simple item.

It is a known fact that overweight women who can shed off between 10lb and 20lb have successfully cut by half their risk of developing diabetes. Diabetes is dangerous and it is wise you give mom a system that will improve her overall health and increase longevity. This is a gift that does not cost so much money, but it gives so much health in return. …

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