If you have the makings of another Casanova yet unsuccessful in picking up women most of the time, it's time you learn to succeed the next time you hit the bars. The art of picking up women is simple-all you need to keep in mind are a few bits and pieces of advice and you're good to go.
Picking up women is all about confidence, determination, and a little bit of flirting. Other than an activity, it is unofficially more of an art. This may be a little feat to some people, but the thought of pouring in your abilities to get a date is a big deal! Do you know how challenging it is to convince a woman to like you, more so, to start a conversation with a woman you have just met? First-timers should not feel intimidated, though-there is always a start for everything, and the same goes out to learning the art of picking up women.
If you want to succeed in picking up women you will have to be very confident in your quest. You have to be brave enough to approach a woman without making yourself seem desperate. As such, you will have to portray enough poise when you approach someone. When starting a conversation, introduce yourself first and display your sense of humor and wit. You can use pick up lines, jokes, and puns, as well as wisecracks, and even words of wisdom. Be wary, however, that you should not compliment her so much or it will make you look very desperate.
Remember that when in bars, there is a possibility you will not find a serious person. Some people there could only be after a temporary date and that's it. They'll hook up one minute and be gone in the next. To deal with these instances, you have to be open-minded. You do not have to get affected by the comments and behavior of the woman you have spoken to, unless you feel a certain kind of attraction building up between the two of you. You do not have to be affected by the income of a date. If she rejects, then simply, move on to the next.
One of the most important things you should remember when dating is to enjoy. Just enjoy whatever it is you're in and everything will be easy from there. If you seem happy with what you are doing, your date will feel that you are happy with her company. As such, she will enjoy you too. This could lead to a very fruitful relationship because you will be more open to each other and you, as well as your partner, will find it easier to say what it is she would want to say.
When you feel like you know enough about your date, try to build attraction. In other words, flirt. Be the first to drop a smile, do small acts of chivalry, and slowly break the touch barrier. Make your attraction clear but do not express it in a way that could make you seem desperate. When she responds positively, it could be time to ask for her number or to invite over to a private date with you. If you did well prior to inviting her, like starting off with a very fun conversation, it would be easier for you through the rest of the night.
This is how it goes in the world of dating and if you are what most people would consider a newbie, then do not fret. There's always room for improvement when you do not get a date the first time around.